Episode Details

Most people think they know what true love is, but Christine, who's been with her partner for 27 years, would argue most of us are confusing it with limerence or attachment.

In this episode, we unpack the difference between infatuation, attachment, and real love, and why understanding it might be the key to a relationship that actually lasts.

Christine met her partner when she was 19. They've been together 27 years and married for 20. She knew from her teens that she didn't want to be possessed, owned, or treated like a status symbol, and she was clear about that from day one. In this conversation, she explains why "the one" is a myth, why most relationships are unhappy, and what it actually looks like to love someone without trying to control them.

We talk about the moment she watched her husband almost fall for someone else and felt joy instead of jealousy, the difference between authenticity and connection, the myth of Orpheus and Eurydice as a metaphor for trust, and why real love means letting your partner walk their own path, even when it means walking apart for a while.

If you've ever felt stuck between what people call love and what love actually feels like, this one's for you.

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