Episode Details

What do you say when your child asks about race, racism, or representation – and you’re not sure where to start? In this special episode of Raising Us, host Elise Hu is joined by Jelani Memory, founder of A Kids Co. and author of A Kids Book About Racism, to answer questions from real parents navigating challenging conversations. From starting at step one to deciding when your child needs more support, Jelani and Elise share practical scripts, resources, and strategies for tackling conversations in an age-appropriate way. Whether you’re wondering how to respond when your child brings up something unexpected or you’re trying to keep these conversations going over time, Jelani offers real advice from his own experience parenting six kids, rooted in honesty and curiosity.

Key Takeaways:
Engage in conversations with your kid by starting with wherever you’re at.
Challenge stereotypes through curiosity and conversation.
Encourage your kids to come to their own conclusions to feel more connected to it.
Take topics that your child brings up seriously.
Validate your child’s feelings about hard topics.

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