Episode Details

In this week’s episode of The Audaci-Tea Podcast, hosts Lisa and Sovereign are joined by returning guest Sarah, also known as Horrible Mean Bad Woman, to ask the question men desperately don’t want you to: 

What if being a “good woman” is the problem?

Together, they break down how women are socially conditioned into constant niceness, emotional labor, and moral responsibility, all while men are never held to the same standards. Sarah unpacks the power of embracing the “horrible, mean, bad woman” identity as a rejection of impossible expectations designed to keep women compliant.

Together they explore how male behavior is excused while women are expected to absorb harm gracefully, how agreeing with men’s negative stereotypes can expose the absurdity of their logic, and why redefining your identity outside of patriarchy is a necessary step toward real autonomy.

But first, in Tea Time, Lisa and Sovereign discuss the shocking murder case involving singer D4vd, the reality behind churches requiring sexual misconduct insurance, Nikki Glaser’s comments about non-monogamy on the Call Her Daddy podcast, and the internet’s reaction to influencer MJ Gray’s engagement.

Later, they open the mailbag for one of the wildest listener stories yet, covering a journey from trad marriage to dominatrix to taking down her pedophile father.

🎧 This episode is an unapologetic look at how to embrace your full potential to become the most horrible, mean, bad woman you can be!

🎙️ Topics Discussed:
• The pressure on women to be “good” and endlessly accommodating
• Emotional labor, morality, and unequal standards between men and women
• Reclaiming identity outside patriarchal expectations
• Using humor and “agree and amplify” to expose male logic
• Why women are not responsible for fixing men or dismantling patriarchy
• Embracing autonomy, boundaries, and self definition

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:
Singer D4vd charged with murder
https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2026-04-20/d4vd-murder-charge-slaying-celeste-rivas-hernandez

The Clergy Abuse Crisis Has Cost The Catholic Church $3 Billion
https://www.npr.org/2018/08/18/639698062/the-clergy-abuse-crisis-has-cost-the-catholic-church-3-billion

Exposing A Global ‘Rape Academy’
https://www.cnn.com/interactive/2026/03/world/expose-rape-assault-online-vis-intl/index.html

Gisèle Pelicot case
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c89xde5qzvgo

Woman sets man on fire case
https://www.abc.net.au/news/2025-05-08/corbie-walpole-sentenced-burning-jake-loader-howlong-sentence/105265038

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:
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