Episode Details

Hi beautiful friend, welcome back! In this episode, we’re having a real and honest conversation about control—why we hold onto it, how it’s connected to our nervous system, and what it actually looks like to surrender it to God. If you’ve been stuck in anxiety, overthinking, or constantly trying to manage every outcome… this episode will meet you right there. So many of us have learned to hold everything together as a way to feel safe. But the truth is, control often keeps our bodies in survival mode and blocks the deep healing God is inviting us into. I break down how your nervous system plays a role in this—how your body holds onto fear, trauma, and the need to stay in control—and why surrendering isn’t just a spiritual concept, it’s also something your body has to learn. Healing isn’t just renewing your mind… it’s allowing your body to experience safety again in God’s presence. We’ll talk about what it means to truly trust God in the healing process, especially when it feels uncomfortable, uncertain, or slow. And I’ll share practical ways to begin releasing control daily—through stillness, awareness, and inviting God into the places you’ve been gripping tightly. You don’t have to carry everything. You don’t have to figure it all out. God is safe to trust—even here. You are so loved, seen, and valued more than you can imagine! XO, Melanie Save your seat for my FREE Workshop happening April 30th, From Survival Mode to Peace: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/survivaltopeace The 3 Ways You Can Work With Me: 1. Rest & Restore Membership: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfh-Lv5s7oryOh9pOzKpKbtH3kzE9_eDbKRZecYmN_o_7Xc8Q/viewform?usp=send_form 2. Surrender to Heal Academy: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfLcT3gcPlXXeqJLE8A2Dcj2YH9yTQ_lwknEYNyBTp-Vw8zZA/viewform 3. 1:1 Coaching (High-Level Support): https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8_XG262EIK4GXM2M9y04v9eEOCg2nqyGJNbmAdvge-W2HWg/viewform Download the Nervous System Reset Guide and begin your healing journey today : https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/nervoussystem Grab a Nervous System Reset Session spot- only 5 available! Private, 60 min. Nervous System Reset Session- learn about the nervous system, practical tools when you feel triggered, personalized 7 day reset plan to calm your body, and more! https://square.link/u/aaFrw3ka?src=sheet If you have been blessed by the podcast please consider supporting us by buying me a coffee! You can do that here: buymeacoffee.com/christianwxn Grab the greens , mushroom coffee, & supplements I talk about here: https://www.LiveGood.com/MelanieChavez Email me: christianwomenhealingtrauma@gmail.com Come join our SKOOL COMMUNITY, Women Healing with God: https://www.skool.com/christian-women-healing-trauma-9505 Join our Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1C4Hg525Pv/?mibextid=wwXIfr Follow me on Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@christianwomenhealing?_t=ZT-8vOAjTfaicw&_r=1 Grab my 50 life changing journal prompts for healing here: https://a84a-melaniechavezllc.systeme.io/journalprompts Grab the vibration plate I have shared about on the podcast: https://amzn.to/4dMVu2d * Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/iros-young/a-perfect-day License code: AXTAJ6GP05MYQKZ1 Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/andrey-rossi/seize-the-day License code: 3TUZ76SCPAWKFBWA ** Some of the links above are affiliate links, which means when you purchase I receive a small commission. My advice and opinions of any products are always my own and I never share products I haven’t tested and tried on my own. *** Disclaimer: This channel & podcast is for informational purposes only. It is not made to cure or treat any mental health related issues. I am not a licensed therapist. Always talk to your health care provider first.