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Do you feel like no matter what you try, your body just won't let go of something? Like it's stuck in a loop you can't think your way out of?

This week I sat down with Britt Piper, somatic therapist and author of Body First Healing — someone who's lived every layer of this work. Taken from her mother at birth, she lost her brother at 15, survived a brutal assault at 20, and ended up in a jail cell at 22 — where, stripped of every distraction, her body started shaking, sweating, and crying on its own. She walked out feeling different. That was her turning point.

Here's what blew my mind: Britt said alcohol wasn't her problem. It was her body's solution. A nervous system doing the only thing it knew to survive pain that had never been processed.

She revealed that nervous system regulation has nothing to do with staying calm. A healthy nervous system moves between activation and rest about 100 times a day — and when you suppress that natural movement, unexpressed emotion builds like a pressure cooker of stress hormones, eventually showing up as chronic inflammation, autoimmune conditions, even disease.

And she dropped something I haven't been able to stop thinking about: when you hold onto anger toward someone who hurt you, you're not putting them in a cage. You're putting yourself in one.

After hearing this, you'll never look at your triggers — or your stuck feelings — the same way.

What we talk about:

• Why trauma isn't what happened to you — it's where your body got stuck in the response
• How intergenerational trauma travels through your DNA for at least three generations
• The nervous system ladder and why fluctuating between states 100 times a day is actually healthy
• What happens in your body when you suppress anger, grief, or fear (hint: it doesn't disappear)
• The armor analogy — why we survive trauma and then forget to take the protection off
• Why you literally cannot think your way into nervous system regulation
• The 3E formula — Experience, Express, Expel — for discharging stored stress hormones in real time
• Why nervous system hacks won't stick if you're doing them from a place of self-hatred

Episode Links & Resources:

• Britt Piper's Website: https://www.bodyfirsthealing.com/
• Body First Healing Book: https://www.bodyfirsthealing.com/the-book
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healwithbritt/

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