Episode Details

What if your child’s hardest moments aren’t defiance—but communication? In this episode of The Divine Decode, hosted by Nazish, we explore a powerful shift: seeing behavior as a skill gap, not a character flaw.

This conversation is for parents, caregivers, and anyone supporting children who feel stuck in cycles of frustration. You’ll walk away with a calmer lens, practical ways to respond without reacting, and a deeper sense of connection over control.

About the Guest:

Dr. Beth Long is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. She is the founder of Works of Wonder Therapy and has over 20 years of experience supporting children and families. She is also a parenting author and speaker.

Episode Chapter:

00:00 – A different way to see “difficult” behavior

03:40 – The moment that changed Beth’s parenting lens

08:10 – Why punishment doesn’t teach real skills

12:25 – Defiance vs misunderstanding: what parents miss

17:40 – The truth about “manipulative” children

22:10 – Skill gaps: communication, regulation, social growth

27:30 – Moving from blame to connection in real life

Key Takeaways:

• Behavior often signals a missing skill, not bad intent
• Stop assumptions; start observing with curiosity
• Children learn best through practice, not punishment
• Emotional regulation is built over time, not demanded
• Connection grows when parents shift from control to support

How to Connect With the Guest:

Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Pinterest: Dr. Beth Long

Website: https://worksofwondertherapy.com/

Book: Beyond Words (available on Amazon)

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