Episode Details

In high conflict divorce, children don’t just witness a parent’s distress—they absorb it, often without knowing where the feeling is coming from. Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter explain the brain science behind emotional contagion, why it can quietly build a child’s resistance to the healthier parent, and what that parent can do about it. From holding the schedule steady under emotional pressure, to teaching the four big skills for life, to naming emotions out loud to reduce their intensity—this episode gives parents practical tools they can use inside their own home starting today.

Resources from this episode:
BOOKS

• Don't Alienate the Kids
• BIFF for CoParent Communication

COURSES & CLASSES FOR PARENTS

• Conflict Influencer™ Class
• New Ways for Families Class + Coaching (for parents)
• Resistance, Refusal and the Child’s Brain

ARTICLE

• 7 Ways Children’s Brains Absorb Their Parent's’ Emotions in Divorce (And What You Can Do About It)

TRAINING

Professional Organizational Training: info@highconflictinstitute.com

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Important Notice: Our discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area.

• (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault
• (00:51) - Update
• (04:18) - Children Absorbing Their Parents’ Emotions
• (10:16) - What’s Happening
• (15:55) - Dad’s Options
• (17:41) - Setting Up Emotional Responses
• (20:21) - Parental Awareness and Roles
• (29:55) - Wrap Up