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The Fathers bring us to a place where the soul is stripped of every illusion about itself.

We imagine that we see clearly.

We imagine that we understand others.

We imagine that our words are necessary.

And they tell us plainly.

Be silent.

A brother burns with the thought that he must speak, must reveal, must correct. Yet the Elder cuts through this urgency without hesitation. Say nothing. The Lord will take care of it.

This is not indifference.

This is faith.

We speak because we do not trust God. We intervene because we believe that without us truth will not prevail. Beneath much of what we call zeal lies anxiety for ourselves and a hidden desire to justify our own heart.

The Fathers do not negotiate with this.

Silence is safer than righteousness mixed with passion.

And if a brother has been exposed, even unjustly, how is he to respond?

Not with self defense.

Not with resentment.

Not even with a demand for justice.

He is to believe that the one who spoke did so for his good.

This is a word that wounds the heart.

To receive accusation as love.

To give thanks for what humbles.

To increase in love for the one who has caused pain.

This is not psychology.

This is the Cross.

The one who lives in this way makes swift progress because he has stepped outside the logic of the world. He no longer defends an identity. He entrusts himself entirely to God.

And so correction itself is transformed.

The Fathers do not permit harshness born of agitation. If the heart is disturbed, the mouth must remain closed. Words spoken in turmoil do not heal. They infect.

One must wait.

Wait until the heart becomes still.

Wait until peace returns.

Then speak quietly, as if into the ear of the brother.

Even here there is no formula. One must discern the soul before him. One must become small. One must abandon the authority that comes from position and take on the authority that comes from humility.

And even then, correction may not be received.

It does not matter.

One has done what is given. God will do what remains.

The Fathers expose something deeper still.

Even acts of humility can be poisoned.

A prostration can be filled with vainglory. Silence can conceal indifference. Authority can corrupt the mind without being noticed.

Pride, the sense of power, and vainglory move quietly within everything.

If these are not despised, nothing bears fruit.

So the soul stands in a n