Episode Details

There’s nothing more frustrating that continually attracting men who seem interested… and then they slowly pull away, ghost you or tell you they’re not looking for anything serious.

The men who will text constantly but never ask you on an actual date.

The ones who say you’re great but they aren’t looking for “anything serious”.

The 3-month situationships that leave you heartbroken and confused.

It can feel like every man you meet is emotionally unavailable or avoidant.

It’s hard not to wonder:

• Why do I only attract emotionally unavailable men?
• Are there any decent men left?
• Why does this keep happening to me?

But here’s the truth most dating advice never explains…

Attracting these men? It isn’t random.

There are very specific reasons some single women in their 30s and 40s continually these attract emotionally unavailable or avoidant men.

Once you understand these reasons, this pattern becomes surprisingly easy to break.

In this episode, I walk you through:

• The 3 unexpected (and unfortunately common) reasons you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant men
• The root cause that dating advice won’t tell you
• Why dating strategies, or trying harder to find better men doesn’t work
• The 3 steps that will stop you attracting emotionally unavailable men for good
• And that make meeting consistent, loyal, genuine men a given.

None this will change by itself.

So if you’re sick of attracting emotionally unavailable avoidant men and the confusion, disappointment and frustration that goes along with them.

Hit play on this episode now.

And in just 25 minutes you finally understand why it keeps happening and how to finally attract the men you DO want to date. 

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Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern)

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Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern)

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