Episode Details

Why You Attract The Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern)

Published 4 months, 2 weeks ago

Have you ever had this happen?

He’s clearly interested in you.

The messages are great, flirty, fun.

It feels, for sure, like there’s something happening with him.

And then suddenly…

The messages get colder, shorter, stop coming as frequently.

He says he doesn’t want a relationship or anything “serious.”

He pulls away 💔

And you’re left thinking…

WTF??!?!?

Inside this episode, I break down exactly why this happens and the 4 steps that break you out of this pattern.

For good.

Because attracting men that don’t care if they lose you…

It’s not random.

It’s not about them.

And it’s not bad luck.

There’s a reason you keep attracting the men who seem all in…

And then aren’t.

Once you understand why, you can break this pattern completely.

Inside this episode you’ll see:

Why men pursue you, then pull away
What you don’t see that’s happening under the surface that keeps that pattern repeating
What actually attracts the man who does not want to lose you
The 4 steps that break this pattern and get you on track to find real, lasting love.

Journal prompts from the episode:

💖 Episodes to listen to next:

Self-Assessment: Your Blocks to Love | Part 2 (Thoughts, Beliefs & Subconscious Patterns)

🧲 Other episodes in the “Why You Attract…” series:

Why You Attract The Boring Men You're Not Attracted To (And How To Break The Pattern)

Why You Attract Men Who Pull Away (And How To Break The Pattern)

Why You Attract The Men That Only Want One Thing (And How To Break The Pattern)

Why You Attract Bare Minimum Men Who Breadcrumb You (And How To Break The Pattern)

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