Episode Details

If dating, finding love feels hard, exhausting and honestly, a bit hopeless right now…

I want to gently point something out to you.

Without realizing, you’re kinda, actually choosing this.

NOT consciously.

NOT because you want it.

But because it’s familiar 🧸

The same relationships that end in heartbreak.

The same types of men.

The same conversations that go nowhere.

The same feeling of “why does this keep happening to me?”

Yes, it’s painful.

It’s not what you want.

But it’s what you know.

And your subconscious mind (which drives 95% of what you do, without you realizing) will always choose a familiar hell over an unfamiliar heaven.

Every. Single. Time.

This means that finding love in a way that you haven’t before (like following the one rule love does)…

It doesn’t feel natural at first.

It feels weird, uncomfortable.

Maybe even like you’ve lost your mind 🤪🤯

I’m here to tell you that’s normal.

I went through it all myself.

Inside this episode I’m taking you BTS of what it actually looks like to find love in a way you haven’t before.

Why there are so many doubts and fears.

Why it feels so uncomfortable to start.

What’s happening underneath it all.

And why discomfort is actually a sign you’re finally moving towards love.

Not away from it any more 🙌

Inside this episode you’ll see:

• What “familiar hell vs unfamiliar heaven” actually looks like in your love life
• Why you keep going back to the same patterns (even when they aren’t what you want)
• The real reason doing something new feels so uncomfortable
• My honest experience going through this (and what happens on the other side)
• A simple way to start breaking these patterns keeping you away from love this week

If you keep doing what you’ve always done…

You already know how that ends 💔

This episode is your way out of that.

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