In this compelling episode of the To Be and Do podcast, host Phil Amerson welcomes Tim Soerens, executive director of the Parish Collective, for an enriching conversation about what it means to be the church in the neighborhood and how that impacts both individual lives and communities. Listeners are taken on a journey that weaves together stories of playful evangelism, real-life examples of neighborhood flourishing, and the deeper meaning of church as a connective force in society.

The episode opens with Amerson reflecting on Soerens’ writing in “The New Parish” and his more recent book, “Everywhere You Look.” Soerens explains the mission of the Parish Collective: to connect people who seek to be and become the church right where they live, emphasizing the importance of reorganizing church life around local relationships that actively pursue the well-being, or “shalom,” of their neighborhoods 01:09.

Conversation Highlights & Takeaways

1. The Power of Place-Based Faith
2. Soerens discusses how focusing on the neighborhood allows the church to ask, “What is God doing here and now, with these people?” rather than simply striving for bigger services or attendance numbers 12:58. This localized approach shifts the conversation from competition among churches to collaboration for the flourishing of the community.
3. Weak Ties and Neighborhood Cohesion
4. The discussion delves into the social science of “weak ties” or “bridging relationships.” Speaker A and Soerens recount how simple, repeated encounters—like seeing a neighbor at the grocery store—can gradually foster connective tissue in a community 16:55. This relational glue is essential for lasting change.
5. Leadership as Convening, Not Controlling
6. The role of leadership is reimagined as “convening” rather than commanding. Drawing on insights from Peter Block and John McKnight, Soerens highlights the radical impact of leaders who focus on connecting people, rather than simply leading them 24:46.
7. The Unique Role of the Church in Society
8. Soerens argues the church, unlike any other institution, is uniquely positioned to serve as the connective tissue among different sectors—business, education, politics, and more—bringing neighbors together for the common good 14:50.

Whether you’re a pastor, layperson, or someone who simply cares about the place you call home, this episode is full of ideas and stories to help you “be and do” in ways that can transform your own neighborhood, one connection at a time.