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Back to EpisodesYou Are Not Meant To Be For Everyone And That Is Freedom
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Some advice sounds nice until you try to live it. “Be yourself” is one of those lines, right up until you feel the pressure to keep the peace, stay likable, and avoid disappointing anyone. Today we go straight into the tension between authenticity and people pleasing, and why trying to be “for everyone” quietly drains your energy, your confidence, and your joy.
We pull a powerful excerpt from Cathy Heller’s Abundant Ever After and sit with a simple command that lands like a wake-up call: unsubscribe from pleasing everyone. From there, we talk about what authenticity actually does in real life, not as a slogan but as a signal. When you show up as you, the right people lean in, and the wrong people opt out. We also explore the “seven degrees” idea of energy alignment and why you can’t convince, argue, or force someone to meet you where you are. If they’re not ready, they can’t hear you and it’s not your job to drag them there.
We make it practical and personal with stories about feeling someone’s high energy after a call, noticing misalignment in social spaces, and teaching our kids to trust their gut as an “inside feeling” that keeps them safe and grounded. We also name the hard part: as your boundaries get clearer and your mindset gets stronger, some friends and even relatives may fall away. That loss can sting, but it can also be a sign you’re finally choosing what supports your mental health, your peace, and your growth.
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