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E144: When Self-Help Isn't Helping
Description
In this first episode of the When Self-Help Isn’t Helping series, we slow down and name something most of us don’t realize is happening: the quiet worldviews shaping how we handle life, emotions, and change.
We talk about:
- why so many Christian women feel like they’re holding everything together
- how self-help, emotional regulation, and responsibility can subtly replace dependence
- the difference between consulting God and resting in Him
- and what Scripture keeps pulling us back to when growth starts to feel thin
This episode is about re-centering growth on relationship—with God as the source, not just the support.
You’ll also be invited into a simple awareness practice for the week and can download the free Worldview Discernment Chart at myhappyvault.com/worldview to help you notice what’s been shaping you.
Anchor Scriptures: John 15:5, Proverbs 3:5–6, Psalm 127:1
Episode Takeaway: Pay attention to what’s forming you—and what it’s asking you to rely on.
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