Episode Details

Why You Can Get Hard to Porn But Not Your Partner — And How to Fix It | Ep. 164

Season 5 Episode 164 Published 3 months, 3 weeks ago

Description

In this episode, I'm addressing one of the most common — and least talked-about — causes of erectile dysfunction in midlife men: porn-related ED. If you or someone you love has noticed that things work just fine alone but shut down with a real partner, this isn't about age, hormones, or anything being wrong with you. It's about your brain — and how repeated exposure to high-stimulation content has recalibrated your arousal system. I break down exactly what's happening neurologically, why midlife men are particularly vulnerable, and walk through three clear steps to stop the cycle, rewire your brain, and rebuild real-world intimacy. This is not about shame. It's about understanding a pattern — and changing it.

IN THIS EPISODE:

00:00 Introduction — The Problem No One Talks About

00:25 Podcast Intro

00:58 What Porn-Related ED Actually Is

01:38 What's Happening in Your Brain

02:35 Why Midlife Men Are Especially Vulnerable

03:10 Step 1: Stop Desensitizing Your Brain

04:00 Step 2: Rewire Your Brain

04:48 Step 3: Resensitize Your Brain to Real Pleasure

05:42 You're Not Broken — Patterns Can Change

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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.