Episode Details

Have you ever been told you are too direct, too strong, or too bossy -- only to find yourself shrinking down just to keep others comfortable? If so, you are not alone, and this episode was made for you.

Christel is a former military veteran, corporate leader, and SisterSmart Elite client who walked into a new company with impressive credentials -- mentors, leadership program visibility and years of high-performance experience. Yet her career was not advancing the way she knew it should. Her direct style was being flagged in performance reviews and the guidance she was receiving from mentors was not specific enough to help her break through.

In this client story episode, Christel shares the exact blind spots that were holding her back, how she learned to communicate with impact and brevity to earn a seat in senior leader briefings, and how she ultimately landed a high-visibility promotion that required a full relocation and a major team turnaround -- all in the span of one year.

Whether you are a woman in senior leadership navigating the double bind of being too much or not enough, wondering whether executive coaching is worth the investment, or preparing to step into a new high-visibility role, Christel's story is proof that the right development program changes everything.

In this episode you will discover:

• Why mentors alone may not get you promoted -- and what fills the gap
• How to stop being labeled too bossy, too direct, or too strong without losing who you are
• The communicating with impact shift that earns you access to senior leader rooms
• How to receive performance feedback without defensiveness -- so your leaders thank you
• What the first 30-60-90 days look like in a high-visibility new leadership role
• How to lead with your feminine strengths in even the most male-dominated environments
• What Christel says to every woman who is on the fence about investing in executive coaching

2:56 -- The real limitations of mentorship for high-achieving women leaders

4:26 -- What Christel was looking for when she chose executive coaching over self-help

6:46 -- Looking back: the blind spots she did not know were blocking her promotion

8:09 -- Being labeled too strong, too bossy, and too direct in corporate leadership

9:47 -- Understanding social dynamics and finding your authentic place in the leadership hierarchy

10:39 -- The communicating with impact shift that got her into senior leader briefings

14:26 -- How to receive feedback without defensiveness so your managers actually thank you

15:26 -- Landing a high-visibility senior leadership promotion and relocating for the role

17:12 -- How to navigate career relocations without letting them derail your momentum

19:32 -- The 30-60-90 day framework for entering a new role and building high-performing team trust

22:22 -- Leading with feminine strengths in a male-dominated manufacturing environment

24:57 -- Is executive coaching worth it? What Christel says to every woman on the fence

27:00 -- How to protect time for your own development when you feel too busy

29:41 -- The women leaders who inspired Christel: Condoleezza Rice and Madeleine Albright

If you are searching for how to get promoted from director to vice president, how to overcome imposter syndrome as a woman leader, executive presence for women, leadership coaching for women, communicating with impact, or how to build a high-performing team in a new leadership role -- this episode covers all of it through Christel's real client story.

ABOUT CHRISTEL

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