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Brian Miller reflects on a growing ache he feels in both the church and the wider culture: we do not seem to know who to trust anymore. Trust in politicians, pastors, institutions, even the police has eroded. In that setting, Brian turns to Jesus — not as an abstract doctrine, but as a real person whose life reveals why he can be trusted.

Drawing especially from Matthew 4, Brian frames Jesus' temptations in the wilderness as a test of trustworthiness. Jesus is tempted through need, fear, and power — the very pressures that often cause leaders and ordinary people alike to betray their mission, their values, or the people who depend on them. But Jesus does not yield. He refuses to put his hunger above his calling, his fear above his trust in God, or his desire for kingship above the path of the cross.

Brian connects this directly to coaching. Trust is the real currency of coaching relationships. Clients do not open up unless they believe they are safe. And coaches cannot become trustworthy people unless they themselves are grounded in something secure. Brian's central claim is simple but weighty: because Jesus can be trusted, my life is secure — and only then can I become someone who is trusted.

Big Ideas & Takeaways 1) Brian wants to talk more directly about Jesus

Brian opens with a personal longing: he hears people talk about God, the Bible, and Paul, but not enough about Jesus himself. He compares it to his wife's grandmother after her husband Hugh died — people avoided mentioning Hugh because it made her cry, but Brian sensed that what she really wanted was for someone to remember him.

His point: there is something powerful about speaking of Jesus as if he is real, present, and worth remembering.

2) We are living through a crisis of trust

Brian names trust as one of the defining problems of the present moment. In his view, trust in public life is at a lifetime low:

• people do not trust politicians

• people do not trust churches or pastors

• people do not know whether to trust the justice system

• even formerly stable sources of authority now feel suspect

This loss of trust is not just political or institutional. It is personal and spiritual. People feel alone, uncertain, and abandoned.

3) Matthew wants us to know early: Jesus can be trusted

Brian argues that Matthew's Gospel is intentionally anchored in trust. Before Jesus begins his public ministry in full, Matthew shows us who Jesus is and whether he can be trusted with our lives, our hearts, and our eternity.

The wilderness temptation is not random. It is a revelation of Jesus' character.

4) Jesus was tempted by need — and did not abandon his mission

The first temptation is hunger. After forty days of fasting, Jesus is in real physical vulnerability. Brian emphasizes that this is not symbolic discomfort; Jesus is nearing the limit of human survival.

The temptation: meet your own need first.

But Jesus refuses to place his hunger above his calling. Brian connects this to conflict and relationships: many peopl