Episode Details

In this episode of Faith & Feels, I sit down with Dr. Kervins Clement, CSAT, founder of Clement Counseling and Consulting who is trained in sex addiction, Gottman Method, EFT, and EMDR. We dive into a profound conversation about the intersections of trauma, sexuality, and healing. We talk about the concept of eroticized rage, the complexities of shame in sexual experiences, and the importance of self-compassion in the healing journey. Dr. Clement shares his insights on reclaiming sexual identity and intimacy, and we discuss the need for more open and honest conversations about sexuality within the church and beyond. We close the episode with encouragement for those in recovery, talking about the importance of doing the work for yourself and recognizing that healing is a continuous journey.

Resources:

https://www.youtube.com/@DrKervinsClement

Takeaways:

Today's episode includes sensitive topics around sexual health and trauma.

Eroticized rage is when feelings of anger become intertwined with sexual arousal.

The body responds to sensations without choosing what's right or wrong.

Shame can complicate the understanding of sexual arousal in trauma survivors.

Healing involves reclaiming one's sexual identity and desires.

Self-compassion is crucial in the healing process.

Conversations about sex should be normalized to reduce shame.

Recovery requires hard work, accountability, and ownership.

You are not your addiction; focus on your health and well-being.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Healing and Faith

01:48 Meet Dr. Kervins Clement: Background and Expertise

09:02 Understanding Eroticized Rage

19:44 Navigating Shame and Trauma in Sexuality

27:40 Reclaiming Sexual Identity and Intimacy

39:25 The Importance of Self-Compassion

46:22 Encouragement for Those in Recovery

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