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Back to EpisodesBreaking Free from Loneliness: Community After 50
Description
If you’ve ever felt lonely in a room full of people — or quietly wondered why connection feels harder to find the older you get — this episode is your permission slip to stop waiting and start reaching out. The sad truth is that loneliness among women over 50 is more common than most of us want to admit, and more complex than simply being alone.
This week, I get vulnerable and share my own experience with loneliness, from the silence that followed my sister’s passing to the unexpected friendships that bloomed at a podcasting conference. I explore why midlife transitions like divorce, empty nesting, and career changes can quietly shrink your circle — and what you can actually do about it. You’ll walk away with practical, soulful strategies for finding your people, creating community when none exists, and remembering that even in your loneliest moments, you are never truly alone.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
- Why one in three adults between 50 and 80 report feeling lonely — and why women are especially affected
- The important distinction between being alone and feeling lonely (and why understanding this changes everything)
- How major midlife transitions — divorce, empty nesting, loss, career changes — can quietly erode your sense of community without you even realizing it
- Practical ways to find your people, from conferences and retreats to Meetup groups and women’s circles
- Why sometimes the boldest, most loving thing you can do is create the community you’ve been looking for
- How spiritual practices like meditation, journaling, and Light Language can help you feel connected even in your quietest, most solitary moments
- Why reaching out — to an old friend, a new acquaintance, or even yourself — is one of the most powerful forms of self-care you can practice
Remember — you are never too old to start a new chapter.
Resources & links mentioned:
- Soulful Women’s Network — Join my own community for women over 50, meeting monthly in-person (Central Florida) and on Zoom. Find the free Facebook group by searching Soulful Women’s Network on Facebook or go to facebook.com/groups/soulfulwomensnetwork
- Good Grief Retreat — A small, intimate retreat for women held in Black Mountain, North Carolina in June, co-facilitated by Gloria Grace, Patricia Alton, and Jessica Lee Alton. Designed for women navigating grief and loss of any kind — a relationship, a loved one, an identity, a season of life. Learn more at goodgriefretreat.netRegistration ends April 15th, 2026.
- Meetup.com — A free resource for finding local groups organized around shared interests, hobbies, or life stages
- PodFest — The podcasting conference where Gloria Grace made a meaningful new connection that led to a Light Language sharing event
- Wise Women’s Retreat — An annual one-day retreat hosted by Katheryn Napier and Patricia Alton featuring talking circles, drum circles, and creative activities
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