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Episode #1113

Most men struggle to set boundaries because they fear the friction it might cause in their marriage. They mistake being a "Mr. Nice Guy" for being a good husband, but as Coach Chris and Doug Holt discuss, there is nothing unsexier to a woman than a man who acts like a doormat . When you allow your wife to speak to you disrespectfully or violate your financial agreements without consequences, you aren't being "patient" you are training her to lose respect for you . Real boundaries are immovable and firm; when they are malleable, they create confusion and a total lack of trust in your leadership .

In this episode, you will learn the critical difference between a boundary and an agreement . While agreements can be negotiated through dialogue, a boundary is a line in the sand like infidelity or character assassination that you are willing to "die on a hill" for . Doug and Chris share how to stop seeking external validation from your wife and instead build the self-