Episode Details

Sandra Nestor-Love reveals her success formula—focus + practice = outcome—and shares how embracing your inner hero, defeating anxiety/ego, and prioritizing Jesus unlocks power (influence, impact, authority) in business, ministry, and life.​

• 0:00 Intro: Sandra's background, stirring joy to restore strength in the Lord.​
• 2:45 Book Trailer: Mission ImPossible – Hero vs. inner villain, reclaiming power.​
• 5:30 Success Formula: Focus + practice = outcome; define your legacy word (e.g., "honorable").​
• 9:15 Grid for Greatness Game: Tic-tac-toe board for focus, best questions to control conversations.​
• 13:40 Hero's Journey: Hero, problem, guide, plan, action, risk, success; reverse-engineer wins.​
• 18:20 Anxiety as Pride: Fear-driven control, dead things (possessions) drain life.​
• 24:00 Iago (Yeshua Goes First): Prioritize God over creation; talk to Him more than yourself.​
• 29:50 Spiritual Anatomy: Hands demo – spirit, soul (mind/will/emotions), body toddler.​
• 35:10 Stress vs. Anxiety: External pressure vs. internal fear; cast out, don't manage demons.​
• 40:30 Rest & Trust: Humility unlocks restoration; no rest without trustworthiness of God.​
• 46:05 Best Game: Childlike curiosity for retention; gamifying leadership principles.​
• 51:20 ABC Toxicology: Anxiety, blind spots, careless conflict; solution is successology (study Jesus).​
• 56:40 ARCBO Prayer Process: Acknowledge/admit, repent/replace, confess, baptize, obey.​
• 1:02:00 HIM Acronym: Humility, integrity, maturity – Christ's nature & function.​
• 1:07:30 Closing Prayer: Iago exercise for breakthrough, identity, rest in finished works.​

Description (YouTube / Spreaker)Leadership coach Sandra Nestor-Love (ex-atheist, psychology major, mom of close-age kids) shares her battle-tested systems from Mission ImPossible and Iago (Yeshua Goes First): reverse-engineer success, defeat inner villains (anxiety/pride/ego), and anchor in Christ's finished works for true power—influence, impact, authority.​Key takeaways:

• Success Formula: Focus + practice = outcome. Define success via your "legacy word" (e.g., honorable = love self/work/impact).​
• Grid for Greatness: 7-min tic-tac-toe game exposes blind spots, best questions shift focus from worst to Christ.​
• Hero vs. Villain: Embrace both sides; win war within to conquer externally (business, ministry, parenting).​
• Anxiety Exposed: Pride's child—fear/control from chasing "dead things" (possessions drain soul).​
• Spiritual Anatomy: Hands-on demo: Spirit (thumbs up: "I'm okay"), soul valve (focus), body toddler—train or be trained.​
• Iago Process: Yeshua Goes First—talk to God > self/world; ARCBO (acknowledge, repent, confess, baptize, obey).​
• Rest Revolution: Humility's elevator > ego's complaint train; total surrender = total victory.​

From Jacksonville festivals to corporate trainings, drug recovery, street ministry—Sandra's turned suffering into strategies. Ex-ROTC officer, BMW sales manager (20 cars/mo), now coaches via games/visions for heavenly ROI.​Books/games at sandraandlove.com | 904-729-6707

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