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Borderline Personality and the Fear of Abandonment: What Most People Miss | Epi 138
Description
In this episode, we take a deeper look at a common misunderstanding about borderline personality organization: that the core struggle is simply a fear of abandonment. Drawing on the work of psychoanalyst Herbert Rey and his powerful metaphor of the “marsupial space,” we explore a more complicated psychological dilemma — the painful experience of never quite finding a relational space that feels both safe and free.
We explore: Why can closeness feel desperately needed one moment, yet suffocating the next? And why can even small moments of distance trigger fears of being pushed out or abandoned?
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