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PPP 502 | When Process Is Not Enough: The Human Side of Project Leadership, with Brett Harned
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In this episode, Andy talks with Brett Harned, founder of the Digital PM Community and the Digital PM Summit, and author of Project Management for Humans: Helping People Get Things Done. Brett has spent years coaching project leaders and helping organizations rethink what project management really is. His core conviction: the human side of the work is not a nice-to-have. It is the work.
In this conversation, you'll hear how Brett fell into project management and what early experiences shaped his perspective on people and projects. You'll learn the patterns he sees repeated across teams and industries, practical habits for when projects feel messy or start to drift, and why he believes project management is a leadership role that most organizations still undervalue. Brett also shares his candid take on AI, what it can and cannot do for project leaders, and what advice he would give his younger self.
If you lead projects or teams, whether or not you have a PM title, this episode is for you!
Sound Bites- "Often with PMs, it's finding or receiving or feeling the permission to lead like a human instead of like a machine or a robot."
- "Projects fail because conversations didn't happen or they happened way too late."
- "Project management is a leadership role and too often organizations don't see it as a leadership role the way that they should."
- "Project managers are quietly carrying emotional labor that no one really acknowledges."
- "You can't earn trust by being invisible."
- "The role has become less about task tracking and more about judgment, good communication and trust building."
- "If you call people on your team resources, they have every right to call you overhead."
- "Slowing conversations down before speeding up the work is like the biggest thing."
- "Drift isn't usually about effort. It's about misaligned understanding."
- "AI is not going to replace a really good leader."
- "AI is great at admin. It's terrible at the leadership stuff. It can't read the room, it can't navigate tension, it can't earn trust."
- "Say the thing now. Saying something early is almost always safer than saying it too late."
- "The job of a project manager isn't to absorb chaos. It's to make it a conversation."
- "Caring about people and building relationships is a skill, and it's a skill that's necessary for this career."
- 00:00 Introduction
- 01:52 Start of Interview
- 01:57 How Brett Describes What He Does
- 03:29 When the People Side Became Clear
- 06:52 Patterns Across Teams and Organizations
- 10:32 How Expectations of the PM Role Have Changed
- 12:28 The Impact of Remote and Hybrid Work
- 15:26 Practices for When Projects Feel Messy
- 18:20 How to Name What Is Happening Out Loud
- 21:30 A Question for When Projects Start to Drift
- 23:43 How AI Will and Won't Change the PM Role
- 25:50 Practical Ways Brett Uses AI
- 30:21 Advice to Younger Brett
- 33:40 How PM Skills Show Up Outside of Work
- 35:58 The PM Squad and Same Team Partners
- 38:01 End of Interview
- 38:22 Andy Comments After the Interview
- 41:30 Outtakes
You can learn more about Brett and his work at SameTeamPartners.com and BrettHarned.com.
For more learning on this topic, check out:
- Episode 336 with Clint Padgett. During the interview with Brett, Andy mentioned the weakness