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Dementia Care Doesn't Have To Look Like Loss | Episode 456

“If we get dementia, I want you to walk away.” That sentence can lodge in a family for decades, shaping how we talk, how we grieve, and how we show up when memory starts to change. We sit down with author and arts-community builder Marilyn Raichle, who watched both of her parents develop dementia and then discovered something most people never get to hear: a life with Alzheimer’s can still hold wit, warmth, and real connection when we stop treating the diagnosis like the end of personhood.

Marilyn shares the story behind her book, Don’t Walk Away: A Care Partner’s Journey, and how her mom’s paintings became a doorway into a different mindset. Dementia is scary, but art isn’t and that simple truth helped her start conversations that didn’t collapse into despair. We talk about shifting from “caregiver” to “care partner,” the power of living in the moment, and why one small shared activity can bring someone forward again, even when words repeat or memories slip.

We also get honest about caregiver stress and burnout. Justin reflects on hospice care for his father, the mental health load of hands-on caregiving, and the guilt that families often carry. Along the way, we dig into dementia care, Alzheimer’s support, assisted living realities, and what it would look like if our systems valued care partners and protected dignity for people living with dementia.

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Chapter Markers

0:00 Welcome And Guest Introduction

4:03 The Family Rule To Walk Away

7:47 Caregiving Strain And Mental Health

11:31 Grief, Calvinism, And Saying Goodbye

15:06 Painting Day And Fear Softens

18:17 From Caregiver To Care Partner

29:34 Joy Practices That Bring Them Back

37:55 Writing The Book And System Failures

43:09 Where To Buy And Final Takeaways

45:14 Reflections, Gratitude, And Closing

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