Episode Details

If one of your parents passed away and you’re watching the other one grieve, it can feel scary. You want to help, but you do not want to say the wrong thing or push too hard.

In this episode, I’m sharing 6 practical ways to support a grieving elderly parent with gentleness, respect, and real-life help.

• 1) Respect their grief style
  Everyone grieves differently. Your job is support, not control.

• 2) What NOT to say (and what to say instead)
  Quick phrases to avoid, and simple words that actually comfort.
  Also, why you should not rush them to get rid of belongings.

• 3) Step into the roles their spouse handled
  Help with the tasks they should not have to figure out alone right now.

• 4) Watch their physical health, mental health, and adjusting
  What to look for, plus simple ways to support them as they navigate appetite changes and the day-to-day shift.

• 5) Grief groups like GriefShare
  Why it helps, and how to find one through local churches.

• 6) Podcasts about grief
  Listening support for the quiet moments when they are alone.

Work With Me

If you’re starting to step in more with your aging parent and feeling unsure what to focus on, I offer a limited number of 60-minute Parent Clarity Sessions.

This is a focused session where we can talk through your situation and help you get clear on what matters most right now, so you can feel less overwhelmed and move forward with a plan.

Schedule your session here: Schedule A Parent Clarity Session

• GriefShare Free Support Group   http://bit.ly/4l9LXpX 

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Okay friend, take a deep breath. You’re not alone in this. Lets talk again soon, Trina

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