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Homes hold memories. They hold family history, meaning, and for many, a lifetime of love. But as we age, the very places that once felt secure can quietly become harder—and riskier—to live in.

Most homes in the U.S. were never designed for aging bodies. Yet many older adults feel emotionally and financially locked in. The result? Families delay important housing decisions until a crisis forces change.

Today, we were joined by Harlan Accola, who leads the reverse mortgage team at Movement Mortgage, about a lesser-known option that may help older adults move into safer homes—without taking on new required monthly payments.

The Hidden Danger: Falls at Home

Falls are far more common—and costly—than most people realize.

Roughly 30 million older Americans fall each year. About one in five of those falls results in serious injury, often leading to hospitalization. The direct medical costs alone total nearly $50 billion annually. But the emotional and lifestyle costs for families can be even greater.

What’s sobering is where these falls happen. Not in extreme situations—but in ordinary places:

• Stairways
• Bathrooms
• Entryways
• Narrow hallways

These everyday features become obstacles as mobility changes.

Why So Many Homes Don’t Fit Aging Adults

Most homes were built decades ago for young families in different stages of life. Only a small percentage include basic accessibility features such as:

• Step-free entries
• Main-floor bedrooms
• Main-floor bathrooms
• Wider doorways and hallways

As a result, stairs, tubs, and tight spaces often push older adults toward assisted living or nursing homes—not because they want to move, but because their homes no longer support their safety.

Why Many Families Feel “Stuck”

Even when homeowners recognize their house isn’t ideal anymore, they often hesitate to move.

There are two major reasons:

1. Emotional Attachment

This is the home where children were raised, and milestones were celebrated. Letting go isn’t easy.

2. Financial Lock-In

Many retirees either:

• Have very low mortgage rates (2–3%), or
• Own their homes outright

They worry that selling means taking on a new mortgage payment—something they might regret later in life. So they stay…often until something goes wrong.

A Little-Known Option: Reverse Mortgage for Purchase

Many people assume a reverse mortgage is only for accessing equity in their current home. But there’s another option: using a reverse mortgage at the point of purchase. Here’s how it can work:

• A homeowner sells their current home.
• They use the proceeds to purchase a new, safer home.
• A reverse mortgage helps cover the difference.

For example:

• Sell a $300,000 home.
• Purchase a $500,000 home.
• Use a $200,000 reverse mortgage for purchase.

The key distinction? No required monthly mortgage payments for as long as the homeowner lives in the home. That opens the door to:

• Newer construction
• Energy-efficient homes
• Low-maintenance properties
• Better design for aging in place

A Shift in Thinking: Prevention, Not Reaction

One of the wisest principles in Scripture is found in Proverbs 27:12: “The prudent see danger and take refuge.”

Housing decisions in later life should reflect that kind of prudence. Rather than waiting for:

• A fall
• A wheelchair
• A medical emergency

Families can proactively ask: How can we use the housing wealth we’ve built to improve safety and quality of life—while we’re still healthy?

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