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Defending the Victims of Child Sex Abuse — Trey's Law going National

Defending the Victims of Child Sex Abuse — Trey's Law going National

Episode 663 Published 2 weeks, 2 days ago
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1. Purpose of Trey’s Law

  • Federal legislation introduced to prohibit Non‑Disclosure Agreements (NDAs) from silencing child victims of sexual abuse.
  • Ensures victims cannot be legally barred from speaking about their own abuse.
  • Victims may choose confidentiality, but it cannot be forced on them.

2. The Story Behind the Law

  • Trey was abused for years at a Missouri summer camp.
  • As an adult, during civil litigation, he was pressured to sign an NDA, which deeply harmed his ability to heal.
  • Trey died by suicide at age 28.
  • His sister, Elizabeth Phillips, has become a leading national advocate, pushing to change the law so no child experiences this again.

3. Widespread Problem of NDAs in Child Abuse Cases

  • Across the country, predators and institutions use NDAs to:
    • Silence victims.
    • Protect institutions from reputational damage.
    • Delay exposure long enough for statutes of limitations to expire.
  • Children often do not disclose abuse until decades later due to delayed disclosure, grooming, and shame.

4. Systemic Issues at Certain Institutions

  • Kanakuk Kamps (Missouri) highlighted as a major example:
    • Numerous allegations and confirmed cases of abuse over decades.
    • Accusations of institutional cover‑ups, pressure on victims, and secrecy agreements.
    • Advocacy groups maintain public databases of known or alleged abusers.
    • Some perpetrators remained in leadership roles or were moved to other ministries.

5. Survivor Testimony Impact

  • A 19‑year‑old survivor, Jaden Harris, spoke publicly for the first time after being protected by Missouri’s version of Trey’s Law.
  • She described being pressured by both her abuser and her own attorney to sign an NDA.
  • Her testimony emphasized the power shift that occurs when victims know they cannot be silenced by law.

6. Bipartisan Support

Trey’s Law has broad, bipartisan backing in the U.S. Senate:

  • Lead sponsors: Sen. Ted Cruz (R) & Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D)
  • Additional bipartisan co‑sponsors from both parties.
  • Strong expectation the bill will pass.

7. The Harm of Shame & Silence

  • Shame is a powerful reason victims—especially children—do not come forward.
  • Survivors speaking out helps:
    • Their own healing,
    • Other victims feel less alone,
    • Expose predators still active.

8. Call to Action for the Public

  • Sharing the information widely on social media to raise awareness.
  • Calling senators and representatives to urge passage of Trey’s Law.
  • Supporting survivor advocacy organizations:
    • FactsAboutKanakuk.com
    • TreysLaw.org
    • NMVAlliance.org

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