Episode Details

How can you support a partner with trauma while exploring sex or BDSM safely and lovingly? Learn trauma-informed ways to build trust, create emotional safety, and help your partner reconnect with their body, pleasure, and power.

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TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS:

• (00:00) - Intro
• (00:17) - What Is Trauma?
• (02:36) - How Trauma May Manifest in BDSM
• (05:33) - How Trauma Impacts Pleasure
• (06:14) - How Trauma Impacts Power Exchange
• (07:35) - How to Support a Partner with Trauma
• (10:02) - Stage 1: Safety & Stabilization
• (16:59) - Stage 2: Remembrance and Mourning
• (18:57) - Stage 3: Reconnecting and Integrating
• (28:27) - Stage 4: Consolidation and Resolution

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