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Are You a Performative LGBTQ Ally? Here's How to Know.
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Get Your Ally Impact Checklist!
Are you sure your LGBTQ allyship is creating real impact or just looking supportive on the surface?
If you’ve ever bought Pride merch, shared a rainbow post, or wondered whether you’re “doing enough,” you’re not alone. In a culture filled with rainbow logos and marketing campaigns, it’s harder than ever to tell the difference between meaningful support and performative gestures. And the last thing you want is to unintentionally contribute to harm while trying to help.
- A simple framework to instantly identify performative allyship in brands, organizations, and even yourself
- Clear, practical questions to guide your spending, advocacy, and influence
- A powerful mindset shift that builds real trust with LGBTQ people in your life
Press play to learn how to move from visible support to meaningful, credible allyship that actually makes a difference.
Hi, I’m Heather Hester, and I’m so glad you’re here!
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At the heart of my work is a deep commitment to compassion, authenticity, and transformative allyship, especially for those navigating the complexities of parenting LGBTQ kids. Through this podcast, speaking, my writing, and the spaces I create, I help people unlearn bias, embrace their full humanity, and grow their capacity for courageous connection.
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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical gui