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Our text today is 1 Corinthians 7:1-7.

Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: "It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman." But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. Now as a concession, not a command, I say this. I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another. — 1 Corinthians 7:1-7

Corinth celebrated sexual indulgence as entertainment, expression, escape, and even religion. Sex was merely a convenience—not commitment. But Paul doesn't invent a new sexual ethic here. He reaffirms the historic, biblical blueprint of marriage. The sexual ethic the Corinthians had forgotten:

• Sex belongs in monogamy.
• Sex outside marriage violates the covenant.
• Sex inside marriage is a shared responsibility—not one-sided.

Here is how he starts:

"But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband." — Cor. 7:2

Our sexual desires aren't the problem. Dislocation of sexual desires from the covenant is the core problem. God created us with sexual desires. He is very much pro-sex, but he is also pro-covenant and designed our sexual desires and sexual acts for inside the covenant, not outside it. Sex in the wrong place fractures the plan and design of God and impacts you and others. But sex in the right place fortifies.

And then Paul goes where no Greco-Roman man expected him to go:

"The husband should give to his wife… and likewise the wife to her husband." — Cor. 7:3

This isn't Paul trying his hand at sex therapy like Dr. Ruth Westheimer—it was ancient biblical wisdom: Her needs matter. His needs matter. Her authority matters. His authority matters.

Paul's words shatter the cultural norm:

"The wife does not have authority over her own body… likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body." — Cor. 7:4

• He is not suggesting domination—sexual devotion.
• He is not suggesting ownership—sexual surrender.
• He is not suggesting power—sexual partnership.

He is dispelling the myth that sex was designed to be a bargaining chip, a tool of control, or a means of manipulation. It was designed to be a covenant bond.

That's why Paul warns:

"Do not deprive one another… so that Satan may not tempt you." —

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