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Josh and Sam tackle a growing and uncomfortable reality for pastors: what to do when one of your own church members becomes an online troll. The cohosts explore how to discern genuine critics from disruptive trolls, protect your church’s unity and safety, and lead with grace even when someone is trying to provoke you publicly.

1. 1. Document before you act. Screenshot everything and keep a clean record, especially if the behavior escalates into harassment or requires legal counsel.
   2. Discern the source and intent. Trolls seek reaction, critics seek clarity. Many online agitators are former members, hurting individuals, or people seeking attention rather than constructive conversation.
   3. Control the platform with confidence. Ignoring, deleting, or blocking is often the wisest decision. You are not obligated to host destructive behavior on church channels.
   4. Move conversations offline, not into the spotlight. When the troll is a known member, shift the interaction to private, pastoral spaces—phone, video, or in person—where accountability and empathy are possible.
   5. Lead with grace but prioritize safety. Respond with brief, gospel-centered statements (or silence when appropriate) while protecting staff, volunteers, and the church from threats or instability.
   6. Stay focused on ministry, not online battles. Don’t waste energy on endless debates. Keep the mission central, uphold Christian values, and shepherd the church toward unity rather than distraction.

The goal is not to “win” online but to model Christlike character and redirect the conversation toward spiritual health and relational restoration.

Resources:

• Doctor of Ministry, The Southern Baptist Theological Seminary

• Chaney & Associates

• FREE Research Report! New Surprising Insights

• Church Answers Central

• The Hope Initiative

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