Episode Details

Dating after divorce in your 50s can feel exciting, terrifying, and exhausting all at once. In this episode, I share 10 powerful questions you need to ask yourself before you get emotionally invested.

These questions help you stop chasing chemistry and start choosing peace. We talk about nervous system safety, emotional consistency, authentic self expression, and why you should never date someone’s potential. I also break down the difference between chaos and connection, and why midlife is the time to stop auditioning and start being chosen.

If you are tired of walking on eggshells, second guessing every text, or shrinking to keep the peace, this episode will help you recalibrate. At this stage of life, love should steady you. Not stress you.

In This Episode:

00:00 Intro. Dating After Divorce in Your 50s

00:32 Question 1. Does This Relationship Make My Life Easier or Harder

01:00 Question 2. Do I Feel Calm or On Edge

01:30 Question 3. Am I Chosen or Still Auditioning

02:00 Question 4. Can I Be Fully Myself

02:30 Question 5. Do I Feel Safe Speaking Up

03:00 Sponsor Break

03:40 Question 6. Do Their Actions Match Their Words

04:05 Question 7. Am I Growing or Shrinking

04:30 Question 8. Would I Choose Them If Nothing Changed

04:55 Question 9. Does This Feel Steady

05:20 Question 10. Am I Truly At Peace

05:50 Chemistry Versus Peace in Midlife Love

06:10 Final Takeaway and Call to Action

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Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: