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Understanding Weaponized Incompetence And How To Shift It
Description
Today I talk about weaponized incompetence, trace how it drains intimacy and spikes the nervous system, and offer seven grounded shifts to move from managing to partnering. We close with a somatic practice, journal prompts, and an invite to a small healing group this spring.
• defining weaponized incompetence and mental load
• research links between inequality, stress and satisfaction
• why patterns form: socialization, criticism, attachment, executive function
• how overfunctioning reinforces imbalance
• seven shifts for shared ownership and accountability
Ready for Deeper Support?
Somatic Healing Group (JOIN THE WAITLIST NOW!)
If you’re ready to move beyond insight and into embodied healing, I’m opening one small Somatic Healing Group this spring.
This 6-week therapy group is designed for high-functioning women who:
• Feel chronically on edge or emotionally shut down
• Understand their trauma cognitively but still feel dysregulated
• Want practical nervous system regulation tools
• Are ready for deeper somatic integration
Group Details:
• 6 weeks
• 90 minutes weekly
• Limited to 5 women
• Tuesdays, 6:00–7:30 PM/CST
• Begins April 21st
Investment: $300 total
Payment is due in full at enrollment to reserve your spot. ENROLLMENT BEGINS 3/24/2026!!!
Spots are intentionally limited to maintain safety and depth.
→ Join the Somatic Healing Group waitlist here to have first access to enrolling on 3/24:
http://linktr.ee/EmpoweringWellnessHub
Work With Me Individually (Texas Residents)
I offer trauma-informed therapy for high-achieving women navigating:
• Complex trauma
• Late-diagnosed ADHD or autism
• Nervous system dysregulation
• Relational pattern healing
If you’d prefer one-on-one support, book a free 15-minute consultation here:
http://linktr.ee/EmpoweringWellnessHub
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You’re not alone. We’re healing together.