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Back to EpisodesWhat Freeze Actually Looks Like in Girls and Why We Often Miss It: Understanding Girls' Mental Health
Description
If you believe anxiety in girls only looks like panic and restlessness, think again.
In this episode, I explore an often overlooked aspect of girls' mental health: the freeze response. When your daughter can't get out of bed, refuses to eat, or becomes withdrawn and silent, it’s not laziness, it's a biological survival mechanism known as the dorsal vagal shutdown. I'll help you understand adolescent behaviour better by showing why freeze is frequently mistaken for depression or typical teenage moodiness, and why traditional encouragement might actually worsen this state.
This episode also offers parenting support strategies centred on recognising the signals your daughter's nervous system sends and how low-demand presence can help with recovery. If your mother daughter relationship is strained because your teen has pulled away, this episode will give you the insight to respond with compassion and practical understanding.
Join us as we uncover the truth behind behavioural messages in girls and provide tools to strengthen your connection and support your daughter's mental health journey.
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And listen, if you’re sitting there thinking “I need more than this podcast episode”, I’m running a live webinar tonight - 19th February at 7pm GMT.
It’s free. It’s 45 minutes. And I’m going to teach you exactly what freeze looks like, why we miss it, and what actually helps.
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