Episode Details

Why does wanting more love feel so risky, even when connection is the thing you want most?

In this episode of Speak Honest, I explore what happens inside us when desire, asking, and receiving love start to feel loaded, especially around Valentine’s Day. We slow things down and look at why love doesn’t always land, even when it’s offered, and what begins to shift when you stop overriding yourself in the process of staying connected.

You might want to listen if:

• You want deeper connection but feel guilty or selfish for wanting more
• You often shrink, over-explain, or apologize when you try to ask for what you need
• You’re good at giving love but struggle to fully receive it
• Love shows up, but it doesn’t always land or feel nourishing
• You’re tired of abandoning yourself just to keep the peace in relationships

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DISCLAIMER:  Speak Honest podcast content is informational, not professional or medical advice. Jenn is an ICF relationship coach, not a licensed therapist. Consult health professionals for specific concerns. Client opinions do not reflect Speak Honest’s stance. We aim for acc...