Episode Details

CBT, play parties, handmade kink toys, and erotic ritual—Hawthorn returns to share how pain, pleasure, and their pagan practice intertwine to create meaningful connection in kinky community spaces.

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📈 STATS | 60s kinky pansexual switch, they/them pronouns, polyamorous, pagan, non-monogamously married, from Melbourne, Australia, into: handmade kink toys, play parties, play partners, their lover and their wife.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Returning to play parties and asking for what you want

03:15 Discovering CBT scenes, women who top, and erotic pain as connection

05:16 Cock and ball torture basics: tools, consent, limits, and intensity

08:07 Subspace, dirty talk, and surrendering control during heavy impact

12:19 Sensation play, anticipation, and loving pain

14:03 Play furniture, suspension swings, and exhibitionist party scenes

18:02 Being watched, strap-ons, prostate orgasms, and party sex fantasies

22:52 Praise, aftercare, and power dynamics

25:31 Exploring top space: inflicting pain, sadistic pleasure, and feedback

29:18 Community play, enthusiasm, and safe kinky connection

31:01 Handmade kink toys and snake symbolism

35:09 Paganism, sex as sacred, consent, and spiritual practice

38:39 Sex magic, sigils, orgasmic intention, and changing one’s life

43:05 Ritual sex with partners and spreading pleasure into the world

48:08 Playing with new partners, vulnerability, and letting more love in

53:47 Exploring foot play, sensation, and unexpected desires

59:50 Foot worship, submission, and long-term erotic evolution

01:04:55 Living separately together: space, autonomy, and intimacy

01:09:12 Sensory parties, reading erotica, and non-genital erotic intensity

01:15:20 Swingers spaces, queer comfort, and navigating different scenes

01:19:39 Group fantasies, gangbang dreams, and playful connection

01:22:32 What the world needs to be sexier, safer, and more loving

01:25:24 Spreading ripples of love through care, magic, and community

Hawthorn’s original episode from December 2021 | Dominant Women Are Sexy

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