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Judging others can feel instinctive—especially when we think we see someone’s motives clearly. Yet Scripture reminds us that our focus on others often reveals what’s in our own hearts. Matthew 7:3 challenges us to examine ourselves before pointing out the faults of others. This devotional explores how a critical spirit can be transformed into a heart of blessing, freeing us to walk in purity and God’s favor.

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Reflect on these questions:

• When do you find yourself judging or critiquing others?

• How might God want you to adjust your heart and your perspective?

• What would it look like to bless someone who frustrates or challenges you?

• How can letting go of control over others’ actions deepen your relationship with God?

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Full Transcript Below:

One Tip to Break a Critical Spirit
By Kelly Balarie

Bible Reading:
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?" – Matthew 7:3 NIV

Who does she think she is? She is only on social media because she wants people to see her, not because she really cares about anyone or Jesus... She's really in it for herself, and she wants everyone online to know—where she's traveling, what she is doing, how she is looking.

My mind started to go down this critical thinking track again. That is—until I stopped—and then I hung my head down in shame.

The hard truth is—I have judged so many. I have sized up people's intent online. I have sized up and surmised people's wrong motives. I made judgments about people's hearts that only God can know. I have hardened my heart towards people who are even doing the will of God... by deciding they are doin