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Back to Episodes158. MONDAY MINDSET: For all the hot bitches who told they're 'too much'
Description
In this episode, I'm breaking down why being called "too much," "too ambitious," or "too loud" is actually a sign you're on the right track. I'll share my recent experience of being told I'm "too ambitious" to date (ouch), and why our response to criticism reveals more about our own beliefs than what others actually think of us.
If you've ever dimmed your light to be more palatable, or second-guessed your ambition because someone felt threatened by it, this episode is for you.
Key Topics Covered:
- Why being "too much" is actually a star quality in business
- How to respond when people try to pull you back down
- The polarity principle: criticism means you're also deeply inspiring others
- My story of being told I'm "too ambitious" and what it revealed
- The work you need to do when criticism activates you
- Why your "too muchness" is exactly what will change lives
- How to lean into being more visible, more ambitious, more YOU
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00:00 - Intro: Hot bitches who've been told they're too much
0:01:30 - Why people say you're "too much" instead of saying they're inspired
0:02:34 - My story: Being told I'm "too ambitious" to date
0:03:27 - The choice: Dim your light or lean in harder?
0:04:21 - What to do when someone says you're too much
0:05:15 - The polarity principle: Criticism = inspiration for others
0:06:19 - What would happen if I became less ambitious?
0:07:25 - The real work: What if YOUR fear is being activated?
0:09:09 - Rewriting the narrative when you're always defensive
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