Episode Details

Stag fantasies, hotwife dynamics, and unapologetic curiosity—Jay shares what it’s like to hand his wife off, stay to watch, or step back entirely, and how swinging, size politics, and embodied connection shaped his erotic evolution.

🔗 JAY LINKS | OF / @hotwifesheila

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📈 STATS | 42 Black straight cis male, married, Colorado-based creator.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Private kink lives, public identities, and rating his sexual shame

04:37 Swinger sites, sexting skills, and why communication makes or breaks group play

08:02 Touch, massage, energy exchange, and how sex builds connection

13:37 Early sexual experiences and discovering porn

17:18 Learning sex through trial, error, condoms, and asking women for feedback

21:16 Marriage, swinging curiosity, and discovering the lifestyle through a TV special

25:17 Being a bull in predominantly white spaces and noticing size dynamics

27:04 Transitioning from bull to stag and the thrill of handing his wife off

30:01 Stag and cuck dynamics, reclaiming rituals, and recording hotwife content

34:10 Threesome wisdom: vetting, testing, communication, and letting go of control

37:02 Sensory turn-ons, nipple play, and what performs best on OnlyFans

40:08 Hotwife desires, future fantasies, and managing sex as new parents

46:47 Honesty, growth, and living without shame

Originally released July 2023.

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