Episode Details

In this episode of pplpod, we dive deep into the dynamics of controlling behavior in relationships, exploring how abusers seek to gain and maintain power over their partners through intimidation, coercion, and isolation.

We break down the subtle and overt tactics used to manipulate victims, ranging from love bombing and superficial charm to psychological punishments like gaslighting, the silent treatment, and emotional blackmail. Listen in as we discuss:

• The Cycle of Control: How abusers exploit vulnerabilities and utilize intermittent reinforcement to create traumatic bonding, making it difficult for victims to leave.

• The Psychology: The link between controlling behaviors and Cluster B personality disorders, including narcissistic, borderline, and antisocial personality disorders.

• The Legal Landscape: How laws are evolving to recognize abuse beyond physical violence. We cover the criminalization of coercive control in England, Wales, and Ireland, and the implementation of "Jennifer’s Law" in Connecticut, which expands the definition of domestic violence to include these psychological tactics.

Join us for a crucial conversation on recognizing the signs of abuse and understanding the laws designed to protect survivors.