Episode Details

In this insightful conversation, Amb. Elisha speaks with Tim Tedder, a counselor and coach with over 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples heal after infidelity.

Tim shares his personal journey from betrayal to transformation and explains why the belief “once a cheater, always a cheater” is not true. He breaks down what real affair recovery looks like, how trust can be rebuilt, and what separates couples who simply stay together from those who genuinely heal and grow stronger.

This episode explores the emotional and practical realities of affair recovery, including forgiveness, responsibility, truth telling, and making wise decisions about whether to stay or leave a relationship after betrayal.

In this episode, you will learn:

• What most people misunderstand about affair recovery

• Why rebuilding trust requires responsibility from the betrayer

• How couples can heal rather than just survive

• What to consider when deciding whether to stay or leave

• The biggest mistakes couples make after discovering an affair

• How honesty and boundaries support long term healing

Tim also shares a message of hope, reminding listeners that growth and restoration are possible, whether a relationship continues or not.

Reach Tim: https://www.affairhealing.com/tim-tedder-coaching

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