Episode Details

Professional Domination, polyamory, and pillow princesses—Brook shares how communication, fantasy fulfillment, and power play shape her relationships and pleasure.

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📈 STATS | Queer woman, she/her pronouns, non-monogamous, switch, in a four-year polyamorous relationship, makeup artist, former professional Domme, based in Los Angeles.

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Queer identity, non-monogamy, and working as a professional Domme

01:52 Growing up sex-positive and learning about bodies without shame

05:14 Masturbation methods, electric toothbrush discoveries, and preferring external stimulation

06:30 Losing virginity with trust, love, and patience

08:16 Early non-monogamy instincts, jealousy myths, and long-distance openness

10:40 Cheating, threesomes, Craigslist encounters, and learning boundaries the hard way

12:08 Why polyamory works for her: communication, ego, and self-confidence

13:26 New relationship energy, threesomes with women and men, and defining a pillow princess

15:51 Being the center of attention in MFM threesomes and navigating attraction

18:09 Sexual health conversations, HSV-1 stigma, fluid bonding, and informed consent

20:08 Training as a professional Domme, power dynamics, and nurturing dominance

22:19 Cock & ball torture (CBT), keyholding, golden showers, pegging, and stomping

26:33 Safety and ethical torture practices

30:48 Aftercare, emotional drops, and rebuilding trust after scenes

33:07 Tentacle porn, consensual non-consent fantasies, and erotic imagination

36:10 Switching between vanilla sex and kink in long-term relationships

38:06 Negotiating Dominance in real time through body cues and consent

40:21 Reading erotica and sharing fantasies with a partner

41:57 Public train fantasy fulfillment in Europe and slow-burn exhibitionism

46:25 Roleplay: sex worker scenarios, first-time innocence, and playful imagination

49:35 Jealousy in polyamory and creating emotional safety

51:26 Group sex, sex parties, floggers, and initiating communal play

55:23 Listening to your body and asking for what you actually want

Originally released February 2019.

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