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Shoving the Shoulds We Carry as Neurodivergent Parents with Jessica Frew | Ep. 150
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Jessica Frew is back with her book, 'Shove Your Shoulds,' focusing on the unique challenges faced by neurodivergent parents.
Samantha, Lauren, and Jessica discuss the emotional struggles of navigating family dynamics and the societal expectations of parenting.
Jessica introduces the concept of 'mini grief' and the importance of acknowledging and processing these emotions without guilt. Emphasizing the need to release unhelpful stories and pressures, she encourages parents to let relationships develop naturally and on their own terms, fostering a safe and empowering environment for their children.
Jessica also highlights the significance of redefining success and happiness for both parents and children, breaking away from conditional programming and societal benchmarks. She reassures parents that they are doing enough and underscores the importance of grace, love, and acceptance, both for themselves and their children.
00:00 Introduction
00:37 Extended Conversation with Jessica Fru
00:51 Struggles of Neurodivergent Parents
01:52 Understanding and Accepting Grief
03:42 Releasing Expectations and Stories
06:02 Real-Life Examples of Relationships
08:10 Letting Relationships Blossom Naturally
15:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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