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This episode is a celebration. A rant. A full-on, heartfelt THANK YOU to all of you. Because we made it—one full year of podcasting.

So I did something a little different this time: I brought the meanest, most head-shaking, most ridiculous social media comments I’ve gotten over the past year—and I read them out loud. Why? Because I think they reflect the exact reasons I do this podcast. I want to talk about the things people are still too uncomfortable to say or ask.

So today, we’re talking:

• TSA cock cage security breaches
• Whether pegging makes you “less of a man”
• What “real submission” actually looks like
• Why FLR isn’t abuse
• And how to bring up your kink to your partner without scaring them away

And we’re doing it with sarcasm, laughter, truth, and maybe a few four-letter words. You’ve been warned. 

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• The full story behind that viral TSA cock cage video
• My thoughts on pegging, orientation, and why people need to shut up about what defines a “real man”
• Why submissive men aren’t weak—they’re some of the strongest people I know
• Responding to trolls who think FLR is “abuse” or “creates misogynists”
• How we approach consent, communication, and safe words in real life (and not just theory)
• Emotional check-ins, changing your mind mid-scene, and knowing when to pause
• How to bring up FLR or kink with your partner without dumping a full lifestyle label on them
• Why actions matter more than titles—and why sometimes it starts with just buying the damn curtain

Reflect on these:

• What’s holding you back from living more openly in your dynamic?
• Do you really believe that your submission (or your partner’s) is something to hide?
• Are you leading or serving from a place of pressure—or from love, consistency, and clarity?
• And for the love of all things holy: who told you a real man doesn’t enjoy pegging?

Contact

Want to share your thoughts, vent, or ask your own “how do I tell her?” question? Email me anytime: krystinekellogg@gmail.com

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