Episode Details

This episode marks a quiet and meaningful return to the Confidence After Cancer podcast.

Rather than beginning the year with big declarations or rushing back into life, Gabby shares why 2026 started differently for her, shaped by family, reflection, grief, gratitude, and a conscious decision to slow down. Recorded after a deeply emotional New Year spent in St Ives with family, this episode honours love, loss, and the importance of being present before moving forward.

January can come with enormous pressure…new goals, new energy, a “new you.” But for many women, especially those who’ve experienced illness, bereavement, or long periods of holding everything together, this time of year can feel more like emotional jet lag than a fresh start. Forcing motivation on top of exhaustion doesn’t create growth… it creates burnout.

Gabby reflects on the significance of marking 18 years since her cancer diagnosis alongside a recent family loss, and how these moments have reshaped her perspective on time, gratitude, and choice. She explores why gentleness is not weakness, why space can be more powerful than push, and how reframing obligations into choices can quietly transform how we live.

This episode also introduces a subtle but important evolution in Gabby’s work…moving beyond rebuilding after cancer into supporting women who are standing at the edge of their next chapter. Not to be fixed or forced forward, but to lead themselves differently, with alignment, intention, and self-trust.

This is an invitation to begin the year deliberately, not urgently and to ask yourself one simple, powerful question:

What would it look like to support yourself this year instead of pushing or punishing yourself?

What You’ll Learn from this Episode:

1. Why a gentle start to the year can be more healing than a rushed one
2. How grief, milestones, and reflection can reshape your priorities
3. Why January pressure often leads to burnout rather than growth
4. The difference between pushing forward and choosing presence
5. How reframing “I have to” into “I get to” can change your relationship with life
6. What it means to live deliberately instead of reactively
7. Why confidence at this stage of life is about alignment, not effort
8. How to begin 2026 with compassion, intention, and self-support

Resources & Links:

1. Book a free clarity call with Gabby: Schedule here
2. Connect with Gabby on Instagram: @gabby.mottershead
3. Visit the website: confidenceaftercancer.co.uk
4. Watch on YouTube:

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