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Money Rows: The Real Reason Relationships Fail in January 💔💰

Statistically, January is the peak month for divorce inquiries, and the #1 reason cited is almost always "conflict over money."

But is money actually the cause of divorce?

In this eye-opening episode, we move past the surface-level arguments about credit card bills and bankruptcy to uncover the deep-seated psychological projections that tear couples apart.

We challenge the common narrative that "he spends too much" or "she is too controlling," revealing instead how these money behaviors are often the very qualities we once fell in love with—but now struggle to integrate within ourselves.

In this episode, you will discover:

• Why money doesn't push people apart, but our refusal to accept human difference does.
• The "Tight-Arse" vs. The "Reckless Spender": Why you were likely attracted to your partner's opposite money style, and why it's now driving you crazy.
• Real-life examples of how two couples can face bankruptcy, yet one thrives while the other dissolves.
• How to move from "unconscious guardrails" to a values-based spending plan that honours both responsibility and spontaneity.

Whether you're in a happy relationship, navigating a difficult one, or starting fresh, this conversation provides a radical new lens for understanding the person sitting across the table from you.

Explore the impact of Tim Malnick's work and register for his upcoming workshop at: https://timothymalnick.com/

Find out more about Shabbar's services at: https://lumosfinancial.com/

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