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Celibacy, kink, breathwork orgasms, and deep trauma healing—Kelly Jean shares how she’s reclaiming her body, her boundaries, and her erotic self.

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📈 STATS | 47 pansexual woman, she/her pronouns, neurodivergent, single, leans non-monogamous, performance artist, sound healer, singer, musician, breathwork and meditation teacher, and writer, former sex worker, a survivor who lives with complex PTSD, into: creating spaces where people can feel safe enough to soften, to feel, and to heal, and she’s currently writing a memoir and sharing openly on Substack about sex work, kink, addiction, domestic violence, suicide, mental illness, recovery, and radical honesty. 

⏰ TIME CODE

00:00 Kelly Jean’s return and why she’s focusing on self-connection

04:58 Ending a monogamous relationship, choosing celibacy, and rediscovering herself

10:26 A surprise kinky hookup and finding joy without shame

14:05 Felt-sense listening, boundaries, and unmasking in relationships

19:10 Dropping personas, burnout from masking, and reclaiming authenticity

23:28 What celibacy meant to her, hysterectomy grief, and hormonal shifts

28:02 Kundalini, breathwork, and how trauma moves out of the body

32:36 Breath-powered self-pleasure, emotional orgasms, and healing

37:14 Perimenopause, intuition versus trauma triggers, and body wisdom

42:20 Somatic healing, Kundalini yoga, and nervous system rewiring

47:04 Complex PTSD, dissociation, and starting to write her memoir

52:13 Watching her own fetish torture footage and confronting buried trauma

57:20 Fugue states, captivity trauma, and long-term psychological impact

01:03:17 Survival, self-worth, and making meaning from devastating experiences

01:07:00 Writing the memoir, Substack, and finally being believed by her family

01:15:08 BDSM, bondage, and discovering submission as a healing portal

01:22:29 Non-monogamy, lovers, and building relationships that honor her truth

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