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If your plan falls apart the second you have a dinner out, a stressful day, or a “whatever” moment… it’s not you. It’s your standards.

Perfection pretends it’s "high standards". Then it makes you quit the minute life starts lifing.

This episode is the fix: livable standards—the kind you can keep on real-life days. Normal days, busy days, social days… even after you’ve already had an off moment.

In Episode 2 of our January REBRAND series, I’m teaching you the exact system I use to choose standards that feel like self-respect (not punishment), including my Pick-3 method, the 3-level standards framework, and examples you can steal today.

Inside:

• The Standards Filter (Busy Day / Social Day / After-an-off-moment test)
• The 3-level standards system: Normal / Busy + Stressy / Social
• My Pick-3 method to simplify decisions and stay consistent
• Sample “menus” so you can build your own standards fast
• A one-week Standards Upgrade challenge to lock it in

Timestamps

00:00 — Why “high standards” keep making you quit (and what to do instead)

02:18 — REBRAND recap + what Standards actually are (self-respect, not punishment)

11:12 — High Standards vs. Perfection (the difference that changes everything)

14:27 — The Standards Filter: can you keep it on a Busy Day / Social Day / after an off moment?

23:29 — The 3-level system: Normal / Busy + Stressy / Social (build standards that survive real life)

31:35 — My Pick 3 method (how to choose standards without overwhelm)

35:05 — Standards menus you can copy: nutrition + movement + self-care/management (all 3 day types)

50:08 — The Standards Upgrade challenge for the week

52:39 — Wrap-up + next steps in REBRAND