Episode Details

We've got close to 400 episodes, and with the new year, I felt inspired to categorize Dear Men in order to help you get the most out of it!

I've broken it down into six buckets, then listed episodes in an order I believe would be supportive to listen to:

1. Do you identify as a Nice Guy?

If you already know about Nice Guy Syndrome (perhaps you've even read No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover), you'll love these. If you've not yet heard about it but your spidey sense is going off, it's probably a good time to learn more:

• 374: The 3 main archetypes of men. Which one are you? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 367: 'For some reason, I tend to attract "projects."' (ft. Jason Lange)
• 289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 235: 'I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?' (ft. Jason Lange)
• 340: Top 3 traits we've seen Nice Guys develop to get what they want! (ft. Jason Lange)
• 295: Ever 'fallen into' a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 284: Is cheating (including emotional affairs) correlated with Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)

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2. Ever been with an emotionally volatile partner?

If you've ever been with a partner who scared you, who had a lot of emotional intensity, and around whom you felt you were walking on eggshells, then it's time to understand Borderline Personality Disorder. (This could rock your world!)

• 319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange)
• 128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)
• 313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder)
• 354: What’s it like treating Borderline Personality Disorder? (Pt. 1) Ft. Setareh Vatan
• 373: What's it like treating Borderline Personality Disorder (pt. 2) (ft. Setareh Vatan)
• 345: The 4 male "types" who partner with Borderline women (Borderline Personality Disorder) (ft. Violet Lange)
• 163: Ever had red-hot sex with someone who's bad for you? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 221: What's her feminine storm, and what's abuse? (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)
• 386: GuyTalk: How do you co-parent with a challenging partner? (including Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder)

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3. Are you curious about sexy time?

We have tons of fun episodes on this! Everything from sexual fantasies to episodes with erotica writers. Here's just a taste:

• 37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher (ft. me!)
• 388: GirlTalk: The reddest, hottest sex we've ever had (as women)
• 318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!?
• 152: GirlTalk: How to go down on a woman so she *loves* it
• 189: GirlTalk: Does size matter?
• 282: Anal sex! Yep, we’re talkin’ about it. (ft. Sara)
• 245: What's it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi)
• 119: GirlTalk: Blowjobs! What we like and don't like in oral sex on men
• 384: What's the impact of circumcision on a man? (ft. Michael Smith, Intactivist Educator)
• 390: What is foreskin restoration? (ft. Bob Werner)

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4. Are you dating/wanting to date?

Whether you're wanting to "date better," or you're getting back out onto the scene after a major relationship has ended, you'll find a gem in here:

• 186: GirlTalk: Approaching us in the wild (the "cold approach")
• 220: How do I tell if she likes me? (ft. Jason Lange)
• 136: GuyTalk: Dating after divorce
• 387: GirlTalk: