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Back to EpisodesWho Am I When I'm Not Needed: Health, Identity, and the End of Performing with Ailey Jolie
Description
Join Ailey Jolie for a raw and personal solo episode of How To Be In This Body. In this New Year's reflection, Ailey shares what happened when her body stopped letting her perform; a year of health crises, the real story behind her viral posts, and the decision to focus her attention on her upcoming book and course INBODY.
In this episode, she explores what it means to let go of an identity built around being needed, why she's done setting goals from the neck up, and the question she's carrying into this year: how do I actually want to spend my time? This episode is for anyone in their own season of stopping, listening, or questioning what comes next.
In this episode:
- 0:00 – Welcome and Embodiment Focus
- 1:16 – New Year Messaging Challenged
- 3:06 – Illness as Unwanted Teacher
- 8:15 – Writing from Inside the Body
- 10:31 – Calm Versus Capacity
- 22:31 – Stopping the Performance
- 26:00 – Self-Regulation Needs Co-Regulation
- 33:20 – Holding Less to Live More
- 39:20 – Capacity, Fawn Response, and Needs
You can read the transcript here
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